I’m sad right now
I’m a 36 year old lady, married to a man who’s only 45 years old and has 21 children or more in total already.
I am his legally wedded wife, I found out after marriage that he had over ten kids. He begged me to stay and I did. After some years of being married and accepting the whole baby mama drama and step kids outside our marriage,guess what? He wakes me up one dawn and said he has something important to talk about.I gave him a listening ear cos he barely does that but what I heard cleared every iota of sleep from my eyes.Bra K,can you imagine my husband said he wants to bring home all his step kids so we can live under one roof as one big family ??
Yes, he wants to bring home 18 other children to add to the three we have together so we will live under one roof. We live in a five bedroom and the kids aren’t that grown, oldest among all could be around 17 years but there are some as young as 4 years old. He said the baby mamas are many and sending everyone money is affecting him so he wants to take all the children from them and bring them for me to take care of.
I can’t take care of 21 children Bro K. I can’t but he doesn’t want to understand. I’m already stressed and pained enough from tolerating his promiscuous lifestyle. He doesn’t want to understand me. It’s been only 8 years of marriage and it feels like I want to give up on it and now, he’s giving me reasons why to hate marriage. What do I do now because he has already brought six of the kids. I’ve said all I could to stop him but he claims this is how he wants his family, all under one roof 😭. What do I do?
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