10. Selfishness In Bed. Several wives reported that they were fed up with their Nigerian/African husbands' continued selfishness in bed -- only thinking of themselves -- leaving them s-xually frustrated, time and time again. Result: Divorce.
11. Amorous In-Laws. A couple of American wives reported that a couple of their Nigerian/African male relatives had the notion that all American women were wh-res and came on to them. When they reported the incidents to their husbands, the husbands flipped out and accused THEM of coming on to the male in-laws and called them all kinds of nasty names. Incensed that their husbands didn't believe them, they packed up themselves and the kids and left -- later filing for divorce.
12. Lack Of Affection. This was one of the most common complaints I heard. The American wives complained that they were starved for affection. Their marriages lacked intimacy. No "I love you", no hand-holding, no cuddling, no kissing, little or no conversation, beyond what was absolutely necessary. A couple even confessed to cheating but the guilt was too much. Result: Divorce.
13. Infidelity. Some American wives stated that their Nigerian/African husbands claimed that infidelity was acceptable in their culture -- no big deal. And...that no respectable Nigerian/African wife would divorce her husband over something so trivial. But the American wives weren't buying it and divorced them.
14. Not Helping Out Around The House. Three American wives (2 nurses, 1 teacher) said that it irritated the hell out of them that their Nigerian/African husbands expected them to come home and put in another shift doing housework and taking care of the kids, while they sat on the sofa, remote in one hand and a Heineken in the other, while the wives slaved away. And then the husbands had the nerve to expect them to service them at night, with enthusiasm. After some years of this -- they divorced.
15. Mr. & Mrs. & Mrs. Two American wives found out their Nigerian/African husbands had another wife and kids back home and those twice yearly trips home were to visit their other families. Long story short -- divorce.
Well...there you have it...some of top reasons I'VE discovered that caused the failure of some cross-cultural marriages between American women and Nigerian/African men.
What have YOU discovered as the causes of the failure of cross-cultural marriages between American/Any Other Women and Nigerian/African men?
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