So for a while now the Internet has been loud with how Oyibo women make the best wives compared to our Nigerian women,how they love and respect the man's family,how they don't give the man a headache and the rest...
But one thing they fail to acknowledge is that Love beget love and respect beget respect;these two are reciprocal.
The truth is because the majority of our men marry these Oyibo women for papers,they tend to be submissive to these women and behave themselves around them.
They know these women are not of the same culture with us and don't take n0nsense, so our men are careful with them not to offe.nd them.
Most of our men marrying these foreign women won't give half the love and respect they give these women to a Nigerian woman if they marry her .
They know why they marry these Oyibo women and tend to remain very loyal to them no matter what,they would never do that for their fellow tribes wives.
The reason their mothers accept and respect these Oyibo women is the same reason their sons accept and worship her.
They know what their sons are benefiting from the woman so they have no option than to worship and respect the woman like their sons too.
I have never seen a mother in law that is troublesome to her Oyibo daughter in law, never. They coordinate themselves so much around their Oyibo daughter in laws and respect them so much, something many of them will never do for their same tribe daughter in law.
Skin color adoration.
Low budget rac.ism in play.
Inferiority complex of some sort...
Where love is given,love is found.
You think if they don't treat these Oyibo women well and worship them,these women will stay with them?
You being Black is even enough reason to de.al with you if you mess up with them.
They know what they're doing.
Our men should treat our women the way they worship these Oyibo women and see if they won't enjoy premium peace and love in their marriage.
However , this is not to disregard the fact that character comes into play too.
A good woman is a good woman,a b@d woman is a bad woman no matter what you do, regardless of being White or Black.
But then again,peace goes where love and respect is given.
The measure you give is the measure you receive.
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