I am Makasi Chinedu, aka The Maths Boss. In this article, you should be able to understand the reason most men of now a days prefer to marry Oyibo women instead of African Igbo women.
In general terms, marrying same tribe is most preferred by many because of things like, same culture, same language, same tradition and among other things.
In the area of culture and tradition, men do appreciate such so much such that both parties or in-laws won't see any party's culture and tradition as alien.
When growing their children, they do ensure their children grow in line with their culture and tradition as opposed to when different culture and tradition come together as one.
In the area of language, every man do appreciate his children when they speak their mother tongue so fluently.
Given these reasons, it is expected that couple who are of the same tribe do make good families without problems in relation to those couples with different cultural backgrounds.
Much to our chagrin, most families where couples are of the same tribe do d!vorce after having series of problems.
Then I wonder the over emphasis laid on same tribe's marriage.
Don't you think that most of our women have failed? Men who married Oyibo women are happy in their marriages and families.
No wonder a Netizen, in one of the viral video said that, Most of our oyibo wives are winning.
The most important aspect of them is how they love their partner's mothers unlike these J£z£bel generation who wish our mothers are no more before getting married.
In my honset opinion, marrying Oyibo woman whose culture is alien seems the best.
These women are so conscious of our GREAT IGBO NATION'S culture and tradition, unlike most of our Igbo women who are not appreciative of her husband's culture.
Most Oyibo women who are married to an African men do take good care of their mother in law especially, Chinese.
As opposed to most African women, Chinese women who are married into an African family do respect the culture, tradition, language and even the extended families of their husbands.
A Netizen said that, their husbands' mothers are scared that, if they treat them bad here in Africa, such treatment would be reciprocated when their sons return to their normal base.
But this is not so. A good person is a good person, all things being equal. Someone with good conscience would always reciprocate a lovely treatment meted on him.
Having said all these, a few Netizens came up with some assertions in the area of why marriages of these days don't last.
The first Netizen asserted that, the reason such Oyibo marrriages work is because, the man do respect his wife and as well, so proud of having her
Do you as well know how their mother in laws welcome and respects them?
When a man and his mother respect their African wives, it's obvious that they would see the best in their African wives.
This Netizen ended by saying, men who want the best in their African wives should try and give in their best to a woman.
The second Netizen said, Most men do feel vainglory to their African wives as the head of the house that provides. There is no love and there is no respect.
Having said all these, I would conclude by saying, it is better to treat a woman right.
A woman who is treated rightly, whether African, western or Chinese would be submissive to you.
She would love you in return. In fact, she would be respectful and loyal to you.
So my dear, marrying Oyibo women or African women doesn't matter. What matters is how you treat them.
I rest my case!
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